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    Be the Main Character of Your Life: A Reflection on Presence and Attention
    Life and Mindset Feb 2, 2026 10 min

    Be the Main Character of Your Life: A Reflection on Presence and Attention

    Have you ever stopped to consider what it is that makes someone a main character? We like to believe there must be something unmistakably extraordinary about them, something sharp and luminous enough to justify the…

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    Why Creativity Isn’t Inspiration—It’s Resilience Built Through Rituals and Mindset
    The Writer's Room Aug 22, 2025 9 min

    Why Creativity Isn’t Inspiration—It’s Resilience Built Through Rituals and Mindset

    If I ask you to think about creativity, I bet the first thing that will come to mind will be inspiration. A sudden spark of some sort. A lightning…

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    How I Deal With Writer’s Block: My Personal Rituals for Facing the Blank Page
    The Writer's Room Jul 4, 2025 11 min

    How I Deal With Writer’s Block: My Personal Rituals for Facing the Blank Page

    I've been writing for most of my life. And like any writer out there, I've experienced writer's block more times than I can count, especially in the early stages of my journey. Writer's block is a nasty thing, and no…

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    The Pain of Becoming: Why Discovering Your Individuality Isn’t Easy And How To Navigate It
    Life and Mindset Jun 25, 2025 11 min

    The Pain of Becoming: Why Discovering Your Individuality Isn’t Easy And How To Navigate It

    Individualism has become a kind of compass in my life. Because if I’m not myself, then who am I? A mask? A performance? A watered-down version of…

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    Honesty Is the Backbone of Integrity: How Being Honest with Yourself Makes You Whole
    Life and Mindset Jun 19, 2025 9 min

    Honesty Is the Backbone of Integrity: How Being Honest with Yourself Makes You Whole

    Honesty isn't about facts. It's not about factual truths, either, even though that's how we see honesty in our day-to-day life. But if you look…

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    Books On Climate Change Don’t Work?
    Life and Mindset Jan 2, 2023 7 min

    Books On Climate Change Don’t Work?

    Some of us know that climate change is real. Others, even though believing the same, are still rather skeptical about the idea that we, humans, are the cause of it. But the truth stays. There are constant changes in our biosphere that are affecting thousands of species every…

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    The plateau effect in my writing career
    The Writer's Room Jan 21, 2021 5 min

    The plateau effect in my writing career

    I have not stopped working on ‘Witch of An Unfortunate Kind,’ though I have not been posting new chapters either. Since I am handwriting this particular project, I have already written ten chapters that I have not published yet, just because I somehow could not find time and…

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    World is a mirror. Should I keep silently looking into it?
    Life and Mindset Jan 14, 2021 6 min

    World is a mirror. Should I keep silently looking into it?

    There is no single definition of what the world we all live in truly is about? Is it about love or is it about hate because the existence of both cannot be denied. On one side of the road can be seen a magnificent…

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    My New Evening ‘Me-Time’ Routine
    The Writer's Room Jan 4, 2021 4 min

    My New Evening ‘Me-Time’ Routine

    I am a mentally strong person with a bunch of sensitive spots in my mind as well as in my heart. And quite often (almost every day), I get into a condition when my inner peace and balance are somewhat off. To help me to get my mind back in the right watercourse and put my heart…

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    Quarantine Time. Writing. And new Thoughts to Consider in the Coming Months.
    The Writer's Room Jan 3, 2021 4 min

    Quarantine Time. Writing. And new Thoughts to Consider in the Coming Months.

    This post is my attempt at journaling online. And it feels different. Nevertheless, I am willing to try and since I have some things to say, I sincerely hope that this post will be something interesting to read. Let me…

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    5 Books That Changed My Life
    Life and Mindset Jan 3, 2021 6 min

    5 Books That Changed My Life

    First, I learned to read, and then I started learning to live, or something like that. But really, what can be more beneficial for your life than a good, wisdom-ish friend in the pocket of your jeans or bag? Especially for an introvert-minded person. Books are the best…

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    Audiobooks. Lockdown. And new Opportunities
    The Writer's Room Jan 3, 2021 4 min

    Audiobooks. Lockdown. And new Opportunities

    Who would think that staying at home can be so challenging and tough?! I’m sure, most of us dreamed of a week or better a month off work. But now when we have it, it doesn't feel as satisfying as we imagined it would…

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    Here are Some Answers that You Need to Hear!
    Life and Mindset Nov 16, 2020 4 min

    Here are Some Answers that You Need to Hear!

    In Daoism, life is presented as a road which we have to follow. Sounds reasonable and kind of easy, does not it? But the older I get, the less visible this road of life appears to me. It has been a week since I wrote…

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    Two Books That Saved My Freelance Business
    Linguistic Notes Oct 28, 2020 6 min

    Two Books That Saved My Freelance Business

    I have already mentioned these two books on my Instagram, but I thought it would be great to dedicate my attention to them one more time here. Why? Because these two books have changed and are still changing the way I…

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    It's Been A Year and Here Is What I Learned from Being a Blogger...
    Life and Mindset Oct 16, 2020 6 min

    It's Been A Year and Here Is What I Learned from Being a Blogger...

    Last year, in September, I started one of the most important journeys of my life – this blog. Honestly, it reminded me a trip through a gigantic field covered from sky to ground with smoky white fog. I had no idea…

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    What It's Like To Be The Least Talented Person In The Room
    Life and Mindset Oct 14, 2020 5 min

    What It's Like To Be The Least Talented Person In The Room

    Everyone has their talents and gifts. No one is born without it. However, looking back I remember a few people that I believed to be the most talented and gifted people I had ever met. They created without meaning to…

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    How I Am Surviving a Burnout and What It Taught Me So Far
    Life and Mindset Oct 9, 2020 7 min

    How I Am Surviving a Burnout and What It Taught Me So Far

    Burnout is real! I know it after years of fighting and refusing to believe in its existence. I was a solder in the army of my creative bits that drove a stake of pain through my middle each time I was thrown under a…

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    The Stage I Am Currently Going Through: Fear Of Making A Mistake
    Life and Mindset Oct 5, 2020 5 min

    The Stage I Am Currently Going Through: Fear Of Making A Mistake

    Fear—it has been so hard to keep its teeth in the muzzle lately and I am not talking about fear of spiders, this kind of fear is a beast completely different in its nature. It is a fear of making a mistake that exists…

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    Halo of Being Rejected: Every Journey To YES Starts With A Nasty NO
    Life and Mindset Oct 1, 2020 5 min

    Halo of Being Rejected: Every Journey To YES Starts With A Nasty NO

    My entire life is a product of rejection. Hmm… Would it be too much to say that my spin of rejections began at early age and had been dragging my subconscious through all these years with a pompous disdain? Possibly…

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    Learning English Changed The Course of My Life
    Life and Mindset Sep 24, 2020 6 min

    Learning English Changed The Course of My Life

    Language is more than just a way of communication. It is a form of identity. It is a wire that shapes your thoughts and helps you to express yourself to the world. Language is a DNA print that gives you all the…

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    Is It a Dark Side of Freedom of Expression or Just a Bad Experience?
    Life and Mindset Sep 21, 2020 6 min

    Is It a Dark Side of Freedom of Expression or Just a Bad Experience?

    I love the world; this new world where my voice is promised to be heard and where my heart does not have to go through the tunnels of deceiving in order to survive the censured reality of outside world. I can finally…

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    Here Is Your Load Of Imperfections. Find Your Strength In It!
    Life and Mindset Sep 17, 2020 5 min

    Here Is Your Load Of Imperfections. Find Your Strength In It!

    If there was a conversation before the life on earth was created, I would imagine it be like that. Nothing is perfect. Fortunately! Beauty has become a target for wars of objective opinions. The lenses through which we…

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    Joke Is When Everyone Is Laughing. The Rest Is Bullying!
    Life and Mindset Sep 14, 2020 5 min

    Joke Is When Everyone Is Laughing. The Rest Is Bullying!

    It always starts as joke till someone’s feelings get hurt. I know, humor is much needed and highly appreciated thing in our society. But the problem with it is that so many people use it as a weapon of verbal attacks…

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    Your Decision Means More Than What Others Think Of It
    Life and Mindset Sep 10, 2020 6 min

    Your Decision Means More Than What Others Think Of It

    Decisions! Those are the movers to the best part of living which is action. Standard formula of making a decision is quite simple: it relies on such mental processes as reason, biases, memories, and emotions. Your past…

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    Gnome The Ruler and The Secret of Your Prefrontal Cortex
    Life and Mindset Aug 31, 2020 6 min

    Gnome The Ruler and The Secret of Your Prefrontal Cortex

    Science has always been my favorite kind of voice. I love the way it talks about the brain, its plasticity, its limitations and other aspects of its functioning. We all have it and we all use it, so we just have to…

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    When You Do Not Know What The Hell You Are Doing Anymore
    Life and Mindset Aug 27, 2020 7 min

    When You Do Not Know What The Hell You Are Doing Anymore

    We are not Hansel, nor are we Gretel but so often our lives remind the German folklore tale by the Brothers Grimm. Left with a fake promise, we wonder through the wild of the forest called life, searching for our way…

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    Why Those Who Want To Kill Your Dream Should Not Apologize
    Life and Mindset Aug 23, 2020 5 min

    Why Those Who Want To Kill Your Dream Should Not Apologize

    Mad world—what are you doing to the creative minds that are your only salvation? What, not dramatic enough? I think this conversation is not going to be easy for both of us but we have to talk about it anyway. No…

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    What Do I Think About Happiness
    Life and Mindset Aug 16, 2020 6 min

    What Do I Think About Happiness

    And I think about it all the time, are not you? Really, what word out of millions existing would be good enough to describe what happiness is? Hard to say, is not it? At the same time, the answer seems really close to being easy, trivial even, right on the plate in front of…

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    Key Strategies To Stay Centered and Focused In Your Life
    Life and Mindset Aug 9, 2020 7 min

    Key Strategies To Stay Centered and Focused In Your Life

    I’ll tell you a story: once, there was a girl that believed she could do anything. But things she did at the end of the day were not the right things and so, her greatness started slowly dissipating. Is not it what…

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    How To Keep Going When You Feel Like You Can't Do It Anymore
    Life and Mindset Jul 26, 2020 5 min

    How To Keep Going When You Feel Like You Can't Do It Anymore

    It is not a secret — life can be overwhelming, hard, and challenging. Each of us has their own share of bitter and sour, and ironically, this is probably one of the most normal things about life. We all have good days…

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    Power of Being Limitless. 3 Bullheads of How You Limit Yourself
    Life and Mindset May 31, 2020 6 min

    Power of Being Limitless. 3 Bullheads of How You Limit Yourself

    It took me a while to reflect on this idea – you can be anyone and do anything you want, but for some reasons you keep replacing doors with walls and then cry ‘how unfair life is.’ It may look like the whole world is…

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    Clarity as a Success Sign
    Life and Mindset May 24, 2020 5 min

    Clarity as a Success Sign

    Unimaginable amount of possibilities and opportunities that exist in the world can easily cloud our minds, weaken us, and strip off our inborn greatness. And clarity is the only way to avoid it. I know from personal experience how hard it can be to plan out even just a week…

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    Writer without spectacles
    The Writer's Room May 14, 2020 3 min

    Writer without spectacles

    Please, don’t get me wrong: this is not a note to add to the established image of a writer. This is a short blog post written by a writer without spectacles. Spectacles and hat – the main attributes for the sacred ritual of writing through writer’s block (for those who believe…

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    Why Clients Choose You: Mastering the Freelance Mindset
    Linguistic Notes May 11, 2020 5 min

    Why Clients Choose You: Mastering the Freelance Mindset

    This brilliant, with its simplicity, question stands at the base of the professional journey called freelance. But how many freelancers can actually answer this question? For a long time, I was following this false…

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    Uncertain Living as a Freelancer. Tête-à-Tête Business
    Linguistic Notes May 3, 2020 5 min

    Uncertain Living as a Freelancer. Tête-à-Tête Business

    It’s been almost five years since I first discovered freelance as a way of living for myself. For a long time, I kept definition of freelance and business separate in my mind. When I started out as a newbie in the…

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    Why Do Artists Want but Should NOT Live in Isolation?
    Life and Mindset Apr 25, 2020 3 min

    Why Do Artists Want but Should NOT Live in Isolation?

    Living a life in isolation does not make you a better Artist! The power of creative minds is the force that makes the Earth rotate, the Sun rise and the life on our planet evolve. But there are four basic conditions…

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    Story about a Bare Tree and a Mini Guideline to Your Creative Survival
    Life and Mindset Apr 14, 2020 5 min

    Story about a Bare Tree and a Mini Guideline to Your Creative Survival

    Have you ever seen a leafless tree in the middle of Spring? What would you think if you saw one? Poor tree, it’s probably dying – this is what I would definitely find among a flush of different thoughts in my head at…

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    People that leave you in BATHTUB
    Life and Mindset Apr 9, 2020 3 min

    People that leave you in BATHTUB

    How low is your bathtub? People come into our lives with different attitudes, different world views, different goals. As a person who is ‘lucky’ to be born with overly friendly nature, I know how painful it can be to let a wrong person inside. How at times unbearable is to see…

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    There was a Bird that looked like a Fly. What was wrong with the Bird?
    Life and Mindset Mar 31, 2020 4 min

    There was a Bird that looked like a Fly. What was wrong with the Bird?

    Have you ever met a small person? I’m not talking about size, even though for some size is what really matters. I’m talking about emotional aspect of human presence that makes some of us look like a tiny dot lost in…

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    I’m Writing. Don’t Try to Stop me
    The Writer's Room Mar 15, 2020 3 min

    I’m Writing. Don’t Try to Stop me

    Writers write, right?! But what about other things, we, writers, have to deal with daily. Starting with a very primitive task as to find in the load of these mundane responsibilities time to actually sit and spend an hour in a blissful solitude, writing. What about…

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    A Simple Dogma of High Quality Literature Translation
    Linguistic Notes Mar 8, 2020 3 min

    A Simple Dogma of High Quality Literature Translation

    To make a written text shine you need to trust it to the hands of a knowing polisher —Editor. Exquisitely written books not just tell you a story, they speak it to you as if this very story is the echo of your own…

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    Douglas Hofstadter, the Voice of Cognitive science, and Translation
    Linguistic Notes Feb 22, 2020 3 min

    Douglas Hofstadter, the Voice of Cognitive science, and Translation

    As I stepped in this multifaceted world of translation, the only question that kept me awake at night was ‘If my translation is CORRECT?’ Fidgeting over every word, scanning it scrupulously, checking all the possible…

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    Drowned: Journaling yourself out of Anything!
    Life and Mindset Feb 4, 2020 5 min

    Drowned: Journaling yourself out of Anything!

    I remember good days like a vague outline of the bridge which I enter on the days, dark like night sky. It affects my writing. It affects me. It affects people, I care about. And even though there is no way to dispel…

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    Translations for Indie Authors. Excellent way to give another life to your book
    Linguistic Notes Dec 19, 2019 4 min

    Translations for Indie Authors. Excellent way to give another life to your book

    There is only one way to turn one book into many, and it is to translate. Yet, the amount of books that never get a chance to be translated is enormous. It is even more so in the world of Indie Authors and their baby…

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    There are 10 Reasons you’re still not Happy today
    Life and Mindset Oct 4, 2019 9 min

    There are 10 Reasons you’re still not Happy today

    Everyone has a view of what happiness is. Some manage to find happiness in mundane things, like taking a stroll outside in the morning; others search for happiness beyond things that can be touched, dedicating their…

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    What Really Matters...
    Life and Mindset Sep 18, 2019 5 min

    What Really Matters...

    It’s always been the same, like a badly written story where one human being stands against another. Some use fists to defend their truths; others are sharp of tongue. Each is reluctant to give up. But does it really matter? It’s a fact that a huge part of people living on this…

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    5 spheres of personality that shape YOUR confidence
    Life and Mindset Sep 11, 2019 7 min

    5 spheres of personality that shape YOUR confidence

    If you were an apple, there would be a need for two halves to make you whole. Well, in the case of us humans, two halves would not be enough to form your naturally multifaceted personality and complete a healthy…

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    What self-acceptance means and why we might have problems with it
    Life and Mindset Sep 10, 2019 7 min

    What self-acceptance means and why we might have problems with it

    Self-acceptance is not a mythical creature everyone knows about but has never really seen. It’s real. And unlike a unicorn, whose absence is not that vital for our lives, self-acceptance decides whether you’re going to…

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